Wednesday 18 February 2015

Be a perfect lover

Everyone want to stand to be a good lover. your partner is worth it! To be honest i am not a lover but here is the chosen tips from experts view to be a good and better lover for your partner and get on your way to a more exciting and fulfilling relationship.

Its easy to start a relationship but its really hard to Get on up. A relation start between two people but when it ends, there are always more than two people involved!

Always try to maintain your relation among yourself and your partner only. Always try to understand your partner and never take any decision without informing him/her. The situation never be same, you should be sensible for some time.  Stay faithful.., Stay happy with your lover.

"Do your best whatever you do"



Make Reconciliation is a priority---  Its easy to get caught up in our lives and feel so much busy for a date. especially if we've been with someone for awhile. You should give him/her your time as much as possible. Be communicate with your partner, the most common reason of increasing Divorce rates is lack of communication. So, always try to take out some time for your loved ones! Life is not that hectic as people claim it to be, it’s all about priorities….

Freedom and independence---  Every individual demands certain amount of independence in his life, a liberty to be the in-charge of his own decision, and to make his own mistakes! Dominance above a certain limit is always suffocating and is not healthy for your relationship.
If you keep on nagging your partner and spying on him, or you always keep a check on him, he’ll surely start lying and hiding things and these things can drift you apart!

Believe in your love---  Trust is a major part in the foundation of successful interpersonal relationships. It is just as easy to build trust as it is to break it down, provided you are prepared to make the effort. If your interpersonal relationships are plagued by suspicion and fear, making a commitment to building trust rather than destroying it with cynicism can help you to better connect with everyone. believe yourself believe in your love. Always be faithful... 

Respect your partner---  Respect is most important part of the relationship, especially woman seeks. You need to be respectful and always try to involve your better half in big or small decisions of your life to make him/her feel important. At that time when you don't agree with your partner, discuss the situation respectfully.
It’s absolutely necessary that your partner feels that s/he is important for you! Unless, he’ll feel like a piece of trash in your life, and won’t mind an untimely and early exit!

Make sure you really respect and care for yourself before you’re really ready to respect anyone else.

Fight with your loved one---  Yes, you read absolutely right! Fighting is also a important part of a good relationship. But Not like the WWE wrestle mania style. but a healthy fight, that can ensure better understanding.
Fighting also helps you understand how can you tame your partner, how can you control their anger. And lastly, you can always make up with lots of love!!

Be a good friend too---   Its very common that when a couple comes into a relationship, their friends feel left out and subsequently their friendship breaks.
friends should try to understand that things cannot remain the same after a relationship starts, they should try to respect the new changes and try to adjust accordingly instead of demanding equal time as before!

"The good relationship is about two things-- #1. Find out the similarities. #2. Respect the differences." 

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